The beginning of a fine mess…

My husband and I celebrated 16 years of marriage in May 2018 and 21 years as a couple 2 months later; well we didn't do anything to celebrate actually which was quite normal for us as he prefers spending money on cars than anything else!  Though to be fair, we bought a new house together … Continue reading The beginning of a fine mess…

Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)

Yesterday when my lover was leaving to have a meal with his wife and in-laws,  I asked him how he could do that to me (i.e. experience the great sex we'd just shared), just before going out with them?  He said 'compartmentalise I guess'.  It got me thinking about the differences between men and women … Continue reading Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)

The local government officer, the charity manager and her lover

OK so this is a blatant thieving of the title from the marvellous film 'The cook, the thief, his wife and her lover' (watch it if you haven't already, its fab).  But as websites go, this name gives me the freedom to write about my complex marital and affair situation whilst bringing a little light … Continue reading The local government officer, the charity manager and her lover