The beginning of a fine mess…

My husband and I celebrated 16 years of marriage in May 2018 and 21 years as a couple 2 months later; well we didn't do anything to celebrate actually which was quite normal for us as he prefers spending money on cars than anything else!  Though to be fair, we bought a new house together … Continue reading The beginning of a fine mess…

Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)

Yesterday when my lover was leaving to have a meal with his wife and in-laws,  I asked him how he could do that to me (i.e. experience the great sex we'd just shared), just before going out with them?  He said 'compartmentalise I guess'.  It got me thinking about the differences between men and women … Continue reading Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)